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I'm afraid b/f doesn't love me anymore and I'm too afraid to ask him about it

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Question - (31 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and im scared he dosnt love me any more,

Im so in love with him that I think about him all day everyday but he dosnt seem as interested any more, ive noticed the little things like he dosnt call or text me as much any more, he used to say I love you to me everyday but he dosnt as much any more,

When I met him he told me he had never felt as strongly about anyone before and that I was the 1 for him.

Im scared to ask him about it directly in case im right and that he dosnt love me anyone because I will be heart broken.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011):

It'd better to know where you stand now than to drag this out. You will end up anxious and clingy. Anxiety is horrible it causes a lot of problems. Ask him.

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A male reader, mistermann United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2011):

At the beginning of a relationship, I don't think people always necessary behave as they would normal. People get excited and more loved up, but after a while things start to settle down as people become more comfortable in their relationship. This isn't a bad thing at all and isn't any reflection on his feelings or your relationship.

You said yourself that you think about him all day every day, but you have to understand that people love in different ways. Just because he doesn't voice his love as much doesn't mean that his love for you is less than your love for him.

I can understand things from your point of view and I can see why you might think what you think. You just have to ensure that you communicate and spend time with one another and if things feel right, you will know.

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