I'm a straight girl that's in love with a gay guy... is he confused?

A female age 30-35, *endra96 writes:

I have a really close friend who says he's gay, but at times I feel like he might just be confused. I'm falling deep for this him like if he were my lover. He's always flirting with me, but not like he does with anyone else. He's always telling me that one day if we have no other choice of us getting married to someone else, then we will marry each other but only as friends. He tells me he loves me and I would be the only girl he would ever make love to and the only girl he would ever want have bare his child(I know that sentence sounded weird. I didn't know how to explain it right.) On the other hand, he's always talking about his ex boy friends and how he wants a guy to go out with. I don't know what to do... He also at times while we're alone will hold me and kiss my head, cheeks, hand, and almost my lips, but just to mess with me. He knows how I feel about him, but he hasn't changed the way he acts around me. He still holds me close at times and when we're sitting down he'll put his arm around me and start slightly rubbing my arm.

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