I'm 30, he's 60..problems?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was with my boyfriend (Greg) for 2 years, whom I loved very much, although because he was in the process of a divorce and had 2 kids, I did not see him as often as I liked and that hurt me. But, I wanted to wait it out until he was available. During my relationship with him, I rented a room from my old boss and his 2 two kids in their house. After I was in my new rental for 2 months I felt that my old boss, he is 60 and I am 30, began to give me the affection and time my boyfriend did not have time for, he also provided me the family I have been looking for. I do feel my boyfriend loved me though, he was just rapped up in the sticky divorce. This past January, Jim (my old boss) asked me to marry him and I said yes. We will marry this summer. I have continued a relationship including sex with my former boyfriend (Greg) until when he recently found out about my engagement after which he concluded our relationship. I love Jim and am really happy about our engagement. My question is, am I jumping to fast when I feel that my former boyfriends fingers left an impression on my heart, although I think I am over him now.

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