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I'm 28, gay, never dated, and my sex drive is out of control... Help!!?

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Question - (14 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2007)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 28 year old gay single male. Ive always been single and never had a partner or even a sexual encounter of any kind. I think someone kissed me on the cheek once. The fact is im not a very good looking guy at all and despite my best efforts i have still not even come close to finding anyone. I have been through the dating scene on all levels including online dating which was the worst thing ever, really anyone who is reading this dont ever try that! Anyway my problem is that my sex drive is extremly strong right now and its increasing. Im very worried about this. Im soon gonna be 30 and my chances of finding someone are beginning to decrease, I cant deal with it anymore. The problem is my sex drive is getting far to high and im extremly concerned. I want to kill it to be honest, is there any drugs that a doctor can pescribe to kill the male sex drive. I just cant take this anymore.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007):

I'm not sure if taking an SSRI anti-depressant is the solution to your situation but if you are seeking medical advice then the only person who should advice you is a Doctor. You need to speak to them if that is what you want.

I don't know your situation well enough but do you think it comes down to your confidence level? You state that you are "not very good looking at all" but compared to who? And what is "good looking" any way? I didn't think there was such a thing as people find beauty in many different things. I think a therapist would be much more beneficial to you rather than using drugs, drugs will not solve the problem of why have never had a partner, but a therapist might. Can you look around for a counsellor that specialises with gay relationships? But whatever you decide to do, all the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007):

Paxil. A nerve pill some women are prescribed when they have a strong sexual desire that isn't relieved by orgasm.

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