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I'm 26 connecting with a 20, but afraid of how his family will react

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Question - (6 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2009)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm 26 years old women that has soooo much connection with an 20 years old guy. I'm shy to ask him if he has feelings for me. I'm also afraid what his family would say specially his sister who is the same age as me. I want him to be apart of my life. He makes me smile everyday. I just don't want to loose him. I don't know what to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009):

I think about him a lot. I dreamt about him that he was rubbing my back. I hate it when his checking out girls. I know he does feel something but I just don't want to scare him if I ask him. I always tell him that his too young so maybe that convince him. I really don't know what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Really its like they say, age is just a number. If the situation was reversed and he was the 26 year old, it would be 'ok' right? I say if you like him then talk to him about it. You dont want to go on wondering "what if" right? And as far as his family goes, let him worry about them, if he cares about you and they care about him I am sure they will respect his decisions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Hmm. Quite a situation on your hands there. I'd be boring to say give it a little more time but you may lose him since he's so young. I guess at some point just ask him his feelings...ask him at a right time (maybe arrange a time). He would sound like a cool guy if you described him, but if you feel so connected to him, can't you sense if he likes you or not? T_T Irregardless, if things don't work out the way you want it to, (esp on his answer) don't let it stop you from being friends with him, else you'll really lose him.

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