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writes: I don't have a sex drive and have never really had one. I'm a 25yr old male, I have a girlfriend who I love to death but I think this is starting to become an issue. My girlfriend smuthers me in need of some loving but I am not excited nor do I feel like doing it to put it simply. What is wrong with me?! Any help... Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): See your doctor as you may have a hormone problem. It is a simple blood test.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (25 March 2006):
 I take it that you do want and fancy women, you are not supressing some homosexual feelings?
I have to ask as sometimes men who have relationships with women do it to try and make themselves believe it is women and not men they fancy, this leads to the bloke not wanting sex with the woman.
But if you truely feel that it is with women you want sex then I suggest that you firstly talk to your GP, if you are on certain medication it makes you loose your sex drive as do some illegal drugs.
It also maybe that you have just not matured sexually yet, or that your girlfriend is nice but not in a sexual way or it could be her smoothering you and putting pressure on you to have sex that is turning you off.
YOu may just not yet have found somthing that turns you on like spanking or water sports, maybe a little research is needed to find what actually makes you want sex, be open minded and this way you will find what you are looking for.
Some people really do just have a very low sex drive but even then it can be overcome if you find what it is that really turns you on.
Good luck and dont get too stressed out over this,
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2006): get exited some time, masturbate
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