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writes:Am now 22 yrs old and i've never had any relationship with any girl not just because i dont have good looks.Actually i've good looks but because i feel very shy.Sometimes certain gals tell me that they,ve got feelings for me but i shy away.What can i do stop being shy.Its killing me and yet i really need a relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Firstly you have to find the cause of this shyness and then tackle it head on. Then start talking to a range of people and network and you may find a girl. Start talking to the girl and find out if there are any interests that you share. Hopefully you can try this. Don't give up hope because half the time when you give up .... it happens. a part of me agrees and disagrees with this claim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): You just gotta make yourself take little steps with this- for example if a girl expresses she has feelings for you ask her out for a drink and talk somewhere you feel comfortable and dont feel pressured into rushing anything.Also planning what you could say in a given situation can help alot as you feel more prepared. Also remember that if someone likes you they aren't going to judge you if you make a mistake even if its v silly, just relax and dont try to force anything if its not working. Good Luck xx
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