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writes:i am 18.as of sept.08 i got preg. with my first child when i was 16 with my ex of 3 years.my son just turned 1 feb 10. i have been datin my new man for almost 2 years now and i am wanting another child but i am having problums conciving. my boyfriend does smoke weed is this why i cant concive anyhelp would be appreshated i want my other little bundle of joy..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I hope that you're not living on benefits.
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (25 February 2009):
whats your hurry? your only 18 & what makes you think you'll be together for ever? this has irresponsible written all over it.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 I say well done to you, Cee Cee Baby, for being a young mother and doing what you want to do ... I think there is NOTHING wrong with that, and, in fact, everything RIGHT. I'm really glad you've found a nice guy now who loves and supports you and your first baby, and wants to make a family with you two. Good luck and don't listen to any cr*p about your age! We only live once, and I can think of a LOT worse things to be doing at 18 than being a loving mummy and looking after your baby. : )
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reader, CeeCeeBaby +, writes (21 February 2009):
CeeCeeBaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question Okay well number one if i can provid for ANOTHER baby why should age have anything to do w. It i am a great mother. And if u read correctly they r 2 diff men thanks. And i dont let my man smoke weed infront of my son. It really dont matter i will concive another child sooner or later. THANKS FOR THE HELP IF YOU KEEP IT COMMIN ID APPRESHATE IT.
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reader, natasia +, writes (20 February 2009):
I don't think you were asking whether you should have a child or not, were you? You both want one, and you're trying to have one. You are 18. You've been physically able to conceive probably for at least 4 years, and more likely 5 or 6 ... and you have a child already, so are already a mother, and already presumably have your life arranged around your little family.
So WHY someone (below) is telling you you are too young and shouldn't have another child, I DON'T know!! Ignore them. It's none of their business. Actually, it's pretty rude to say that to you when you were asking advice on getting pregnant.
(Sorry, angelaaunt, but I think that was a bit unfair ..)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): come on girl your boyfriend smokes weed, you know what that can cause to the baby health. and your first child just turned one and you are thinking about another child. come on can you wait a few years later. remember that you are the one having problem conceiving. girl be careful you dont know the risk you are at. try mind you take your life. advise go and talk to a counsellor or a pastor. bye for now and peace out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): I'm not being funny, children must be great and everything but arent you a bit young anyway? There is more to life you know, you are only 18 and already have a child!
I dont think the fact your boyfriend smokes weed is the problem, but it probably would be if you did have another child.
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reader, natasia +, writes (20 February 2009):
Does he want a baby as well?
If you both want one, you need to make sure:
1. You are trying at the right time - you're only fertile for about 5 days max. per month, so if you miss those days, there's no chance.
2. Has your guy had his sperm count checked?
Apparently it often takes up to 6 months to get pregnant, and they only class a couple as having a problem if they've been trying for 9 months to a year. Don't know how long you've been trying, but may not that long? The drugs can affect sperm count, too, though, yes, and also other lifestyle things like basically just how healthy you are! And how old is your guy?
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