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writes:Ok. I'm in love with my teacher. Well ex-teacher. He was my sophmore history teacher. Now im a freshman in college. Well i always had a thing for him. Well at the end of that year, we exchanged e-mails. We sthll write each other every once and awhile through email and myspace. Well im 18 now and legal. I always thought when i turned 18 id tell him how i felt. Now i fear i waited 2 long. He moved 2 san diego and is in a relationship. I dont now when or why he moved all 4 kno is that it hurts BAD! Hes everxthing i desire in a man. Hes smart sexy and fit. Hes 31 and im 18 even though i lonk like im in my 20s. I need help. Should i still tell him if so how? I dont want to loose contact with him. I tried to forget him but the fates rather have me hurting. Ive been dreaming about him frequentjy and the dreams are nice and soothing. I miss him! Please help! kj4t5m7nz 4 g7mm aw x 4im 4 6ed of
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reader, Lil_devil +, writes (19 September 2007):
Lil_devil is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanxs guys. Its just hard i mean its been 3years and still 4 feel the same. Mayb if we stay friends it might end up more. I just wanted 2 tell him b4 im off back 2 base. Just in case sumthing happens and i end up in Iraq...
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 this is difficult because unrequited love is hard to deal with but unfortunately it happens. he is/was your teacher and unfortunately he'll always see you as an ex student, even thuogh technically you're not.
if you have a friendship with him, is it really worth jeapodising everything in the hope he feels the same thing for you? friendships are special because there is not any of the problems that relationships face, sometimes having a really good friend, means alot more than a flitting romance which will more likely than not end in tears.
i hope you understand the best thing all round is for you to remain friends if you want but anything else would be unlikely due to his profession.
best of luck.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
You need to move out of your fantasy and into the real world. It is obvious he is moving on with his life. You should savor your feelings but to think a word from you and he will come running is probably foolish. What memory of you do you want to leave with him?
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