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I'm 17 and need some sex advice.

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Question - (30 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ello kitty writes:

hello, im 17. i wanted to know what oral sex is and how it can help me get towards anual sex. and what is the diffrence between them, do you need a comdon. and does it hurt. i have tried to finger myself but icant evry time i get turned on i go in the bathroom and try to finger myself but it never works i can get my fingers in there but i dont feel any pleasure at all.

i know i sound like a slut. but i see my bf watch porn and the girls who do it on thre make it seem so easy but its not. any advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

well im the compleet opposite here.. i find when my bf fingers me i get soo horny and turned on. dont always let him entre you though, as the clitoris is on the outside.. so ask him to stroke it for a while.. feels good!

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A male reader, Mark25 United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2008):

Mark25 agony auntMost women don't get pleasure from fingering. Very few women orgasm through penetration. They usually get pleasure from touching or stroking the clitoris which is on the outside. Oral sex is when you stimulate your partners penis or vagina using your mouth. Whether you use a condom for oral sex is down to personal choice. A lot of women don't like the taste of rubber so if you are going to use them the I recommend using a flavoured one. But, don't forget, that you can catch an infection from oral sex so if you're not 100% sure of you're partners history then you need to use a condom. Don't worry about the porn. It's only acting. None of what you see is real. It's all mechanical.

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A female reader, stefloves you 411 United States +, writes (30 August 2008):

stefloves you 411 agony auntok heres the deal sex hurts the frist two times then it feels better and better mybe u should ask ur bf to finger u thats all i can say!

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A female reader, jdubb United States +, writes (30 August 2008):

to me fingering isnt pleasuring at all, my boyfriend fingers me but it doesnt feel good to me? what feels best is having a guy eat you out, which is him licking your vagina to put it bluntly. you dont need a condom to give him a blow job, unless you dont want his come to get on you. but it feels better to them if you just do it bare

but back to the fingering, it doesnt hurt but it doesnt feel good. to me at least, i dont know if thats normal though?

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