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I'm 14 and want to know how I can attract girls and how will I know if this girl likes me??

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Question - (27 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *b123 writes:

hi im a 14 year old boy when im round girls i get shy and go red and get words in a muddle

i also dont no what to talk about to a girl

i like this girl but im not too sure wether she likes me?? how can i tell wether she likes me

how can i ask for hir number

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A male reader, kb123 United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2008):

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great thanks for your help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

Hey!

Surprised you haven't had lots of replies telling you not to worry. Anyway, here goes. Don't worry!

Blushing and stammering can be attractive, you know. As long as you don't get panicked by it. Would you care if the girl you liked blushed? Or stammered? No.

Girls are people too. You can talk to them like people! Care how about they are. Be interested in what they like to do - what music they like, what films they like to see.

You say there's a girl you like already, which is great. If you want to ask her out, start by thinking about why you like her. Is she pretty? Sweet? Funny?

Let her know, even just through the way you say hello or talk to her, what you think of her.

Once you start talking to her, you could ask her if she wants to go out for a coffee, or a walk in the park, or to a film, depending on what gives in your area.

If she says not right now, don't be worried. She could be shy herself. You could suggest maybe some other time. And give her your phone number!

Good luck. Also 14 is quite young still, so don't feel pressurised into anything by anyone, OK?

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