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anonymous
writes:me and my bf have bin dating for two months now and we done stuff and he whats to do more as in sex... but i dont know if i should i am 14 but i feel ready and i really do care about this guy we have bin dating on and off for over 7 years now i feel like i know everthing about him and i think i want to take it to the next step Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): hi im 14 and just had sex with my gf. it was amazing! weve ony been dating 2 years but we a really strong relationship. if you feel that yours is strong enough why not? but b careful
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): I know what most people will say to you "No you're too young, are you crazy!" But I think that some people are ready before others. The question is if you are ready, why are you asking for other's opinions? I'm not saying that you are not ready I'm just saying sex is really serious, if you have really thought about it and have full trust in your boy friend and he in you, and you are both there for eachother ALL THE TIME, and you both thought, and talked about it, it sounds like you both are ready. But before that it doesn't really sound like it. I know it probably sounds "cool" but who are other people to judge what is cool for you? Go by your own pace and just ignore all the comments. By the way I'm 14 also :) Just thought I'd share that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Let me get this straight you've been dating since you were 7 okay! Before having sex please consider these points
. It's ILLEGAL!
. are you realyy emotionaly and physicaly ready
. Do you trust each other enough to share this experience
. are you (he) mature enough not to blab to his mates
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): i personally think there is no too young age to have sex as long as you are truly ready...
to make sure you are truly ready think about
- what will happen to your relationship after you've had sex and crossed the milestone, cos you mite find it wierd to be regularly sexualy active at 14
- can you deal with the physical side of sex
- can you deal with the emoptional side of sex
- can he? you may be ready but deep down is he? (not just that he wants to cos his mates do)
gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): no you are only 14 your not old enough and if he really loves you then he can wait. If you have really been to gether 7 years then he can surely wait and any way you really should wait till you get married and enjoy your firt time and make that one your first time. you have your whole life ahead dont rush it . if you want to go to collage wait you can't go to collage with a baby. if he leaves you all aloneyou gonna so sad so what please
your friend just wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): dont, because give one more year and see what happens.....beacuse if u have sex with him what if he jsut want that to happen and then leaves u..... but if u really want to u would know..and if u do make sure u use a CONDOM.
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reader, dontworryiknow  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 trust me it dont matter if you have known him for a long time if you was really sure what you wanted to do you wouldnt have come here give it some time and if he cant wait then he aint worth the time!
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reader, Ileana +, writes (9 November 2007):
 7 years? Hun your 14.
Ive been with my boyfriend i was 12 but at 7?
Well im not here to judge, im going to say wait. The longer you wait the better it will be for both of you.
If like every other teenager you choose to ignore me and do it anyway use protection, and i hope to god he loves you.
Ileana
xx
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