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I'm 14 and I think I'm gay!

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Question - (29 May 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 14 know. And i think im gay. I like girls still. But i cant help but look at other boys when were in the gym showers. Its strange, because i want to be with girls, yet i want to 'do thing' with boys! help?

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A female reader, Nobody Knows United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2007):

This is normal mate you could be bisexual [[where you like both girls and boys]] i fort i was bisexual at your age but now i am 15 and i am a lesbian i dont look at boys at all i just look at girls this is normal you could end up going syr8 gay or even staying bisexual this is normal dont worry bout it m8 xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

well im thinking the same thing mate i have no idea i love girl and boys o well i live with it

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A male reader, macboy Australia +, writes (30 May 2007):

macboy agony auntPLEASE do not label yourself as Gay or Bisexual until you are past age 18!

You are young. It is very normal for a guy to have feelings for other guys.

Hell, I am 18, and am still confused about how I feel.

Don’t let anyone convince you that you are gay or bisexual,

Because who knows you better than yourself?

Wait it out. It is the only way to find out how you truly feel.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (29 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntYou may be either bi or bi-curious. You're at an age of experimentation, and it's natural for you to be curious.

DV1

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007):

i agree with cany00s u sound like ur bi. but theres nothing wrong with it i feel the same way sometimes with girls, i even had sex with girls before but i don't anymore. just remember that ur not the only guy that feels that way-trust me!

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntYour not the only one to think and feel like this. To me it sounds like you are bi sexual.

There is nothing wrong with this, give it time and you will know in your own mind who you are most attracted to.

Your still young, you have plenty of time to work things out and have fun!

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