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writes: Hi.I live with my dad because my mum died when I was younger. I have a little sister and an older brother, thing is , my older brother picks on me. He's so nice to my little sister, who's four years younger than me (I'm 13), and my brother is 18, old enough to know when he is bullying someone. He tells me off when I tell my little sister off, but he tells me off all the time! The most annoying thing is how hypocritical he is. I can't say everything he has said and done to me otherwise my question would go on forever, but I just get so upset. Who can I talk to? How can I stop his teasing me? He's never actually hurt me physically, but he's hurt my feelings enough to last anyone a lifetime. Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2006): HI, I'm the one who write this question, I'd just like to say thanks to aunty claire, your advice is really great, and I'm doing what you said! Any other agony aunts, feel free to answer my question!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
 dear reader let me just say first you seem very grown up to be a 13 yr old and i know exactly what your going throguh my brother was only 2 yrs older then me and he did really bully me physically too so teasing isn't really so bad try and show him that it doesn't bother you even if it does laugh it off at first this will seem to be not working but stick to it he will stop eventuallyhave you spoken to your dad about this i know its hard but you must try and make other people see how much your hurting this will affect you later in life if you keep it bottled uptry and keep your chin up he will stop just be strong and smile and say "your not bothering me anymore your acting like a fool" trust me he will stop if you just keep it upgood luck sweetie be strong xxx
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