A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Ladies (and guys if you can)If you liked a guy and you were very shy when it came to romance and so was he and you showed him in everyway (body language etc) that you loved him but you didn't say it and he did too. You tried making a light move on him twice (stand alone with him etc) and he didn't react, would you feel like you were being rejected?Would you ignore him if you did?If he approached you after a couple of weeks with a present say chocloates etc, would you accept that as an appologey and would accept him again or would you need him to say he loved you?Any ladys (or guys) thoughts would be appreciated.Many Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): Well when it comes down to it, this is really all about pride and satisfying an ego. If you filter those things out, you'll be left with the raw emotions of desire. Obviously, we can't just brush those things aside as we brush our teeth every day and flush away the excess.
Anyway, what I suggest is that you don't wear your heart on your sleeve - at least try not to, and take it more slowly and carefully. Especially at your age, there aren't many mature males (through my own experience of course) who can make the best rightful decision that yield in positive results.
In short, do what you think your heart wants but with a sprinkle of logic and cautiousness.
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