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writes:if you believe its true love? how do you not let him get away? the man im so in love with, with everything i have says that he still means everything he used to say to me like he can't wait to have children etc, that he's lost me once and never will again...how do i get him back when i know deep down in my heart he's the only reason im alive. he's saved my life, i made him my everything, was the first guy since i was 15 (im now 18) that i have trusted. i just can't afford to lose him! we've been broken up for approx 3weeks and i just can't bear it. everything reminds me of him! so any advice is so appreciated because i've tried everything. and yes unfortunately i have flooded his inbox and received calls quite a few times. i just think that if i 'give him so much space and dont talk to him' that he'll go for someone else because he thinks i'll give up. no matter how many times i've told him i'll never give up...i just won't be able to live if i can't have him. please anyones advice would mean everything to me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplease dont be tooo nice :|
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 Men that WANT something or someone TEND to get it....if a man says "I don't want a relationship right now" what he's leaving off is the "with YOU" part.... (and yes women can do the same thing)him not replying is telling you a lot... HON he's just not that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe broke up with a girl he had moved in with and been dating for 8 months because he said he was miserable without me...so he did 'come back' but im not sure how many times he has to leave :(
i asked him if he still felt the same and he still meant everything he used to say to me, but is it that he just doesn't want a relationship and he said pretty much.
he's really confusing me and whenever i ask him to tell me what he wants me to do he just doesn't reply
i know he loves me, and he doesn't want a relationship with anyone at the moment...not just me so im not sure whether he'll message me or not or if him not replying is his way of telling me to go away.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 May 2011):
it has to be true love for both in order for it to work... it's not looking good here for that....
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reader, j321 +, writes (23 May 2011):
If you have to try and hold someone down then it is not true love for both only a one sided love. The best way to test true love is to let them go and if they return then it was meant to be. I know it is one of the most painful things to do. However being stuck in a relationship that has a one sided love is also painful.
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