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writes:I don't get it. I've been sexually active for years and have had sex partners of ALL sizes. EVERY single time, the result is the same:I use the bathroom before intercourse JUST IN CASE I wind up squirting....the first 2 or 3 minutes of sex feel great. After that, it is god awfully painful where my g-spot is located. It's like...having a completely full bladder and having someone punch me in the abdomen repeatedly. I feel like I want to cry. On a few occasions, I have. and, in spite of having sex 2-3x a week almost religiously, I NEVER, EVER squirt. No matter how big he is, how small he is, what position we're in, how fast he goes, how slow he goes, it NEVER HAPPENS, even with men who've made intercourse last as long as 2.5 hours by repeatedly coming and getting hard again. It just HURTS LIKE A B*, and ONLY where my g-spot is located. I've been to various gynos 3 different times and they've all said the same thing: No UTINo PIDIt's just your g-spot because you're about to come. Chill. Mind you, I have made myself squirt four times before during solo play. It was an INSANELY PAINFUL--not enjoyable and DEFINITELY NOT an orgasm or remotely orgasm-like--experience, because I had to induce that whole having-to-pee-and-being-poked-in-the-abdomen feeling for several minutes to make it happen. In short, I'm beginning to feel like I HATE my g-spot. It's caused me NOTHING BUT PAIN. Since everyone always likes to say, "well, feeling like you have to pee just means you're about to squirt," what the eff can I do to induce the squirting in order to get back to enjoyable sex? I've had men last as long as TWO AND A HALF HOURS and have never once squirted with a partner. What do I do to either stop the "I have to pee" pain OR squirt and get it over with, WITHOUT ending intercourse or going so slow that he can't cum (and I can't enjoy it)? I'm at a loss. :(
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 You mentioned only two things UTI and PID.. have you checked for chlamydia and other STD's, I think chlamydia is linked to painful sex.
Only other thing I can think is the guy is going too deep, too fast. Sex is not supposed to hurt. Not sure about this squirting thing, much too advanced for me. Women has sex and is in pain, that's the big worry. Go back to your doctor again, tell them what you told us. Try slowing sex right down, and yes he can come and so can you, there is more than squirting or fast and rough sex to love making. Guy will actually come quicker with slow sex if it's done right. Also maybe it's your position. Try on woman on top or missionary, doggy position can sometimes go too deep and give the woman little control.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 February 2012):
 Squirting won't (or shouldn't) make that sensation disappear. You will need to try different sex positions that won't hit your G-spot, that will take some experimenting. Just come up with a list and try each of them.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (13 February 2012):
Why do you want to squirt? The whole deal with the G-spot is sketchy as it is, it's not a proven fact. I don't squirt when I orgasm, in fact the whole squirting deal has never happened with me. I don't get why it would be a desirable thing either. If it's hurting you so much then why keep going?
Why don't you just focus on enjoying sex than hunting for some spot that may or may not be there?
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