How often is there help on here?
Q. How often is there help on here?...
A. 27 April 2009: Read through some of the older posts to find out...... (read in full...)
We fight for stupid reasons and she hit me
Q. Hi there my girlfriend hit me one night. We had an argue about a blanket she didn’t want to share that with me and I told her why and keep asking her she hit me. Before that me and her we had some drinks. What happened is she punch me in my chest ...
A. 27 April 2009: Physical violence in a relationship is never okay. If you both want to remain together and make things work then you BOTH need to go to anger management courses.
If you decided to bring a child into this relationship for example how would you feel... (read in full...)
If the father marries someone other than the kid's mother, will the kid eventually understand?
Q. We were hanging out the other day drinking and just talking and maybe sex. He said the reason why he's not married to that b* is because she's not fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Is this wrong? I want to provide a better life for him and I ...
A. 27 April 2009: I take it from your post that you are dating someone who is in a relationship with somebody else? Firstly, it is a well-known fact that men like this will play the sympathy card with the new g/f. For example "she doesn't cook for me blah blah" I ... (read in full...)
She Didn't Take My Virginiy But Was Heartbroken When I Lost It
Q. Ok about 6 years ago, there is this girl... She's sorta a party girl but we shared like a month of exclusive time before our jobs separated us. I was ALSO, sort of a party person. So it was weird. Like a crash collision course that stopped bot...
A. 27 April 2009: From a woman's perspective she obviously put you up on some kind of pedestal and kept that image of you in her mind. Even though she didn't sleep with you herself, she probably hoped you'd wait for her or at least not lose your virginity in a ... (read in full...)
Broke up and I just don't know what to do..
Q. Okay... Sorry this is so long. The boy i posted about on 30th March, he broke up with me about three weeks ago, and when i asked why i got this reply: ------------------------------------------------------- Him: riiiighht.. look tas...
A. 27 April 2009: This kind of thing makes me so angry! Boys have no idea of the effect they have on young girls! Please, please remember that EVERY single girl out there has probably been treated badly by a guy at some stage in their lives. It is nothing personal to ... (read in full...)
He's angry because I want to keep the baby!
Q. I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the ...
A. 27 April 2009: I think that when you have a relationship with somebody who is married/seeing somebody else then you are taking a huge risk. Personally I wouldn't be able to trust somebody who was cheating with me as i'd know what they were capable of.
You n... (read in full...)
It's like a bad dream and I can't seem to find any way to sort this out or get the truth!
Q. I don't understand. I like this lad more than anything have done for ages! Thing is from everything thats happened and been said in the past it seemed he really liked me and then when he did from what was heard he told some people. After this a ...
A. 27 April 2009: I'm sorry to say this but...it seems to me that there is no reason why you should think he wants to go out with you. I don't mean to be cruel, but he hasn't said or done anything that gives that impression. You seem obsessed by this boy and obv... (read in full...)
He told me everyone is different and he had his own way of being nice to me.
Q. I had another discussion about our relationship with my new bf and now I am frustrated. I am not feeling too bad because I expected this to happen. I like my bf. He was really nice when he was flirting with me a couple months ago and he wrote me...
A. 27 April 2009: He probably chased you to begin with because he didn't think the practicalities through. As previous posters have said, he may feel embarrassed to be seen with you, especially if there is a great difference in your attractiveness levels. If this is ... (read in full...)
Help me figure this guy out!
Q. What the heck is this guy doing and what does he want from me?? Is he just playing games? Does he miss me? What is his deal? A quick bit of background info: I was seeing this guy from October last year to middle of January this year. Then we ki...
A. 27 April 2009: I'm taking my knowledge for this situation from the film "He's Just Not That Into You" i'm afraid! Apparently if guys are interested then they make it obvious they are.
If they seem to be playing games/not committing to anything, it is because ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be clingy?
Q. Hi, Im 16 and my gf is 14. This past weekend, over a kinda lame misunderstanding, she almost broke up with me and after that was cleared up, the next day, out of impulse, she was messin with me about leavin me. After i cried and over reacted both ...
A. 27 April 2009: It sounds to me like your g/f knows that you are "clingy" and loves being able to manipulate your emotions! She seems to be "testing" your love. Be making you cry she is reassuring herself that you care enough about her to cry. I think you'll fin... (read in full...)
Why couldn't I just fall for a decent guy?
Q. My ex was the only guy i've ever loved. But he cheated and is a liar. We spoke recently after not talking since it ended (when i found his lies). he told me he misses me and wants to see me more. I'm never going back to him after he treated me! b...
A. 27 April 2009: You are obviously a strong person by saying that even though it hurts, you are not going back. Men like that think that they can behave however they like and there is no consequence, the g/f will always take them back. You deserve someone who will... (read in full...)
Do I really love him? Should we be together?
Q. Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may ...
A. 27 April 2009: This is a difficult one, because you are risking what sounds like a really good friendship if you decide to take things further. I think you should talk to him about your dream in a lighthearted way and see what his reaction is. You will be able... (read in full...)
I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..
Q. Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professiona...
A. 27 April 2009: It is very difficult for someone without depression to understand what it feels like. The person with depression can also seek to isolate themselves from everybody around them. These two things combined mean that these relationships often don't ... (read in full...)
She's playing the pregnancy card on me...!
Q. I found love, I really did but it didnt work so i pulled the plug. She is playing the pregnancy card on me. She claims she went to the doctor and got tested. She said the doctor is saying since she is on the pill she might have a miscarrage. ...
A. 27 April 2009: Did you use contraceptives (i.e a condom) when you slept together? If not then i'm afraid there is a chance she may be pregant. The pill (if taken correctly) is around 98% accurate, however some women forget to take them when they should. Stomach ... (read in full...)
I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!
Q. Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said ...
A. 27 April 2009: It is a rhetorical question. He was trying to reassure you that it was only sleep that prevented him from contacting you...I'd say if he normally texts you every morning that is a strong sign that you are on his mind as soon as he wakes up, always a ... (read in full...)
He told me everyone is different and he had his own way of being nice to me.
Q. I had another discussion about our relationship with my new bf and now I am frustrated. I am not feeling too bad because I expected this to happen. I like my bf. He was really nice when he was flirting with me a couple months ago and he wrote me...
A. 27 April 2009: You say that he refuses to be intimate "near campus" but that you live on campus! How can he expect you to hide a relationship in these circumstances? You also say that you were initially interested in him because you wanted someone to "trea... (read in full...)
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