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writes: At the weekend I caught my boyfriend kissing another girl in our local nightclub. He can't remember doing it although I confronted him in the club, he was very drunk! Now he wants me to get back with him and he promises to cut down on the drinking and will change. I've told him I will think about it. Is it once a cheater, always a cheater? He has not had a long term relationship for about 4 years untill me. Do I get back with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): hi, i really feel for this i do. my boyfriend cheated on my in latvia on a stag weekend. we had been going out 3/4 months and a couple of weeks before he went i said i wanted this relationship and he told me the wednesday before he left have more confidence and put your trust in someone. he came back and told me it was a one off drunked mistake and he has never cheated on me. he now says he loves me and its nearly valentines day. things are great but trust is not there im afraid. thats what dies. he is going skiing soon. will he or wont he?thing is im not looking for marriage at the mo so am taking each week as it comes. nobodies perfect but loyalty is a must.lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2005): The thing you dont know is that, is this the first time ? Hes only sorry because he got caught! It does depend on how long you two have been together and how together you actually are, before you decide to forgive and forget. It could have been a one off genuine mistake, but do you really want to hang around and find out, wait for him to do it again ? You need to either decide to forget this happend and move on with him (despite there now being doubt in the relationship) or leave. No one will know how things are in your relationship but you. He says he cant remember, but is he just saying that as it makes him feel better, and he can blame it on the drink ? You need to see whether you can truly trust him again, as it was only a kiss and could have been a one off, but you will also need to bare in mind thatyou will have trouble trusting him eveytime he goes out without you now... doubt is never good, but if you in you in your genuine believe him then have faith and hopefully it will turn out for you.Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2005): Unless you are totaly head-over-heels crazy about this guy, I don't think you should take him back. You want a guy who will treat you right and who will be so crazy about you that he never feels the need to get off with other girls. Stay true to yourself and forget this guy. Trust me, what guys say and what guys do are two different things, so I wouldn't totally believe him when he says he's gonna change. Ditch this loser and find someone who is worthy of you. xxx
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