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writes:If i love girlfreind more than she loves me what do i do?I get this earie feeling that i care for my girlfreind much more than she cares for me. I'm constantly asking her whats going on in her life, she tells me this and that i listen and i give my retort, however she rarely asks me how i'm doing if i have problems or if there's anything i need to talk about. i told her up front of a problem i had we resolved it that sort of thing but if i don't tell her she won't ask how to help. i'm just wondering if maybe i'm more concerned for her than she is for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm good help thnx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 If you are after a girl , then you gotta love her more than she loves you.
If she is after you , then she loves you more than you love her.
If you want a girl to love you more, then look for that girl who is interested in you.
That is the law of love.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (23 March 2008):
Hey,
Everyone has their own way of showing there love for someone. She could care for you just as much as you care for her but show it in a different way. Some people arent good at showing how much they care. Considering that she is porbably around your age 16-17 then I would assume she has little experience in relationships so she just may not be knowing what to do or anything.
How does she act around friends and family? Does she ask them how they are and so on?
I think you need to tell her that sometimes it upsets you when she doesnt ask how you are doing. If she knows this upsets you then she can make a effort to ask you.
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reader, Emmy-Lou  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 You may find that a lot of women are very into themselves. It's nothing against you, they jsut like to be the centre of attention (this is only some women not all of us!)
Be upfront with her and tell that you feel unappreciated and she doesn't seem to be showing enough affection towards me. If she laughs you off, she's not worth the floor she's stood on and you can do much much better!
You deserve someone who appreciates you for who you are, not the questions that you ask.
Hope this helps and good luck.
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