| A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I am in late 20s. I have been chatting with this girl for almost 3 months now. We initially chatted almost every other day for 2 hours. We also talked on phone for 4-5 times (everytime for more than 3 hours). We have never met due to geographical distances. We got each other's contact through our parents (arranged marriage).Since last month, she is having some problems with her professional life and is working hard to get it on track again. I totally understand that and we have reduced chatting to 30 minutes every 3 days, just to say "Hi, howz it going?". I don't buzz her even if I find her online (extremely difficult thing to do, especially on weekends)Now, we have decided to meet. I am flying to her place. Till now, from talking on phone/chatting I feel that she has all the qualities I am looking for. Of course, I will be able to judge better when I personally meet her. But if I really like her on meeting, should I convey my feelings? Will she think that I am rushing things (since we would have met only once) ? I don't even know if she likes me or not. Reply to this Question |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, sammibabesxo  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 I think you should tell her how you feel. The two of you have spoken a lot so I don't think you would be moving too fast. :) Just keep in mind that she might be stressed out because of her professional life.
xoxox
|
