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*oosblommetjie
writes:Dear CupidsI'm having problems in my relationship. I don't know if i love the guy i'm going out with. We are togeher for almost a year, but we keep on fighting, i don't even want to have sex with him anymore. I'm afraid if i leave him he will committ suicide. Because he tried it when his ex left him. I came very close to his family. And i'm not sure if i love him. The other problem is we moved in togheter about a week ago. And if i leave him i won't cope on my own financialy. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): You have to love someone to stay with them, sorry, but you havent mentioned the L word, so i can only imagine that you dont love him. And you cannot go through life worrying whether someone is going to kill themselves. They are not your responsibilty. My first husband threatened that several times and i was a battered wife, looking back i wished to hell he had, and done us all a bloody favour. The ones who shout about it, never do a bloody thing! so dont get all upset about it when he talks about it, just pack your bags and make a new start without him. Stop putting obstacles in the way, when you think about it, do it, just go. I walked out after 20 years of misery, so you can do it. Go for it girl, cos life is too short to waste. Mail me if you want.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 90% are just threats and you should not fear his suicide.
or he would have been dead after his first breakup.
If you are working , you should be able to live on your own .
If not, look for a job and be financially independent.
If the above options does not work, then you need to live and try to compromise with him.
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reader, Roosblommetjie +, writes (10 March 2008):
Roosblommetjie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Analiza
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