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writes: My boyfriend of a year and a half says he isn't sure if he loves me because he doesn't think about me "all the time". He is 23 and I am the first girl he has been with for over 3 months. Up until he told me this, I thought he loved me because he treats me very well, is affectionate with me, loyal, and basically a great boyfriend. I asked him what he does feel for me, and he said that he cares for me deeply, I'm very special to him, and he is very attracted to me and thinks I'm beautiful. My question is, does he love me already but not realise, or should I move on?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Dear Reader,
This may appear a tricky one but there could be an easy answer you havent found yet!
He's told you he cares about you deeply, surely that's enough for now? He shouldn't really have to tell you he loves you, you should already know and feel it inside of you. He could love you, he could just be embarresed to say it. These are boys we're talking about here!
Give it time, because I'm sure when he does tell you e loves you, you'll know he means every word. He sounds really special so hold onto him. Let him know he's special. Treat him well, be loyal and faithful and I'm sure things will work out just fine. Believe in your love for one another.
Hope this helps you and all the best,
Phoebe
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Honey he told you he cares about you, he told you you are baeutiful, and he told you that you are special so he obviously has feelings for you. Is it love? I don't know. No-one on this site will be able to tell you that. He doesn't even know himself!!
I don't think anyone really knows what love is! If you find someone who can define it then pass on the info please! Do you love him? Do you love him unconditionally? Because if you love him unconditionaly than you'll be happy with his compliments and thankfull that he's your man not anyone elses.
Sometimes people don't realise how much they love someone until they are gone from their lives, but I'm not saying you should leave and hope he realises his love for you and proposes!! What I am saying is that if you love and you feel for him then keep him because if you chuck it away then you'll never know what could've been.........
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