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writes: I keep seeing a man who sends me mixed signals. He will stare constantly, then look away when I look at him. He says he hates me, but keeps coming back, and it's not for sex! Most recently I went mad when another girl was all over him. He stormed off but then I was surprised to see he had come back and was standing behind me. We went home together but still he sends mixed messages! Is it any wonder I'm confused? I want to get over him but I've ended things before and he keeps coming back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2006): ou really don't give a lot of info here, hun but I have to say..it appears this guy has some glaring shortcomings. He sounds like he enjoys playing mindgames and he likes keeping you off balance. A good, decent fellow would never purposely cause self doubts in a woman he likes. Learn to discern his behaviours, here. What do his behaviours say say about him? Aside from having a huge chip on his shoulder, he sounds immature and very insecure. Do you want to spend time with a man, who can't be honest, respectful and caring with you? This is all about your moral and life perspectives, how you value yourself and how you want to be treated. Do you really want to link your heartfelt emotions and your sexuality with a man like this? I think he has some problems in how he treats women. I'd say you can do better. Just remember, there should equal generosity and respect in all types of relationships. Don't accept his bad behaviours toward you because when one loses their boundaries, you will feel put-upon and used. Take Care hun and good luck
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