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If he doesnt see me he seems upset, Yet says he Isn't ready for a relationship?

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Question - (28 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *onely Lioness writes:

I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months. We have alot in common, have a good time together in every way, and see each other at least once a week. If I dont see him he seems upset, but yet he says he isnt looking for a relationship. I am 29 and he is 38 divorced with half custody of a 2 year old. I don't get it, I think we could be great together if he would open up to me emotionally, but I dont know how to get him to do that without scaring him away:(

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A female reader, Lonely Lioness United States +, writes (28 August 2007):

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I wonder if the good sex we have is what makes him sweat me on the weekly, but I hope he is not that pressed. He doesnt seem like a sex crazed lunatic:) He has says that he really enjoys my company.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007):

Just tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. Next time he gets upset tell him that you are not his girlfriend so why does he care. And if he gets more upset, I would leave him. He sounds controlling.

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