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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Leave the past behind and live in the present.
Do not worry about the future because no one knows what will happen .
You cannot control the future and neither can you change it.
Whatever will happen , will happen!
It is God's will.
The future is not for us to decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all of your insight and advise!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (16 March 2008):
Nobody knows that answer unless He is God.
Once a cheat always a cheat is a stereotype answer.
Not everyone is the same and the conditions why they cheat are different.
You can give him 2 or 3 chances depending on your generosity.
Once bitten twice shy,
Twice bitten , never to come again.
Temptations is everywhere and the soul is weak....
No one is perfect .
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 March 2008):
Yes a cheater will only say he is not cheating while he is not caught. Once caught he will then only admit to it. Remember that fleetwood mac song. Thunder only happens when its raining. Players only love you when there playing. he is a PLAYER.
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reader, sue88  +, writes (16 March 2008):
It really does depend on who he is as a person, if he is a caring loving man probably not, i think if they find the right person they cant cheat there inner person wont let them (its called love).
Be careful what you do tho
sue
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): If a person doesn't realize why they are doing, and if they know why, do nothing to resolve it, they will cheat again.
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reader, Fade878  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 The reason one would cheat stem from the internal reasons and if those are not dealt with; there is a greater chance of him straying. Most reasons given from cheaters have alot to do with demons from the past.
I'd worry about those First.
Counselling is always in order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): That would depend on the person, but I would say yes! Cheating is a sympton in a relationship that the cheater is not happy and they cheat to feel better even though it usually causes them a great amount of guilt. Some people could also cheat because they like the "hunt" and the "rush" that it brings them. My ex had internet affairs, physical affairs and emotional affairs, he never changed that is why I left him!
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reader, Bean317  +, writes (16 March 2008):
Really, it depends on the guy...there's no way of knowing
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): Well dears this saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' But its not always true, It depends on how much your guy is committed to you. I'd give him one more chance, but with a warning that you'll never go back to him if he cheats again. Guys can change their ways and even if they don't cheat ever again - The temptation will always be there!
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