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Id like to try oral sex with him, but its a surprise, any tips on making it a success ?

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Question - (21 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is the only guy I have fooled around and had sex with. I have never given him oral sex because I didnt really like the idea, yet lately I have been thinking about it and I've decided I would like to give it a try. We have only ever mentioned it at the beginning of the relationship when I said I didnt really want to and he was cool with that and hasnt mentioned it since. I like taking control in the bedroom sometimes and the next time I do I would like to surprise him with oral sex. Any tips on how to perform good oral sex? I'll be asking him what feels good and watching his reactions but I would like to know what I'm doing a bit so it isn't a great disappointment for the both of us. Thank you for your help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007):

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IT IS EASY as soon as you go down on him rub his balls softly and slide your other hand real slow up and down his penis while you are sucking i kinda like taking the whole lot in my mouth and suck it that way he will love it if you allow him to cum in your mouth i do this and it taste ok but not everyone can do this if you are going to gag then put a condom on (flavoured one) he will tell you how fast how slow and at the moment he will be wild with ecstacy and you will feel amazing you have helped him achieve this it is really trial and error with oral mines likes deep throat and i try to take the whole thing in my mouth sometimes it is easy others i can gag too but then i don't keep that up wank him inbetween the oral and dont forget the balls too if you can suck on them this will bring him pleasure too most men will tell you what they want go with flow good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007):

Ok, get a lolly and try it on that, sounds sad but i think the way you suck and lick on a lolly is quite simlar in the movements. Don't open your mouth too wide and just ask him what he wants it'll be all good =D

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A female reader, Having Problems??? United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2007):

well im not rely sure how to anser your question but all i can rely say is pretend your sucking on a lollypop but also massage with your free hand but try not to bite lol just go with the flow and i would like to suggest that you use a flavoured condom (chocolate is the best lol)as the cum usually makes some people sick and noone want 2 be embarresed in the bedroom hope ive helped and good luck!

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