Boyfriend wants son to move into our problem relationship.
Q. My boyfriend I have lived with for the past 5 years now wants his almost 17 year old son to come and live with us.The Mother has made no effort in allowing contact between them and had only called once to ask for him to sign the boys birth ...
A. 9 November 2011: first of all i have no idea why you have put up with this for so long! relationships r not only a 1 way street! this man is clearly not mature enough to handle a proper relationship! if i were you i would get out while you still can! i know you love ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to like being a tease?
Q. is it wrong to like being a tease? I used to have very low self esteem and guys would use me but as i have grown up i am a more confident woman. being honest, not trying to sound like a snobby bitch but when i go out clubbing i feel like i can get ...
A. 13 April 2009: at the end of the day it's really up to you, just put it this way though. u wouldn't tease a dog with a treat 4 ages and not give them it would u? guys are the exact same, u can tease 2 a certain point but dont lead them to think they're going 2 get ... (read in full...)
I am so infatuated with my sister in-law.
Q. I am 32 male, married and love my wife to bits. she's also 32. since We fell in love nearly a decade ago we have been together all the time spending both quantity and quality time together. I have never ever, even once looked at any other woman ...
A. 13 April 2009: ok STOP! its a middle age thing (kind of) sumtimes its best 2 get it out of your system but in this case. u need 2reli start thinking about your wife more. if and when you think about your SISTER in law picture her doing something really disgusting ... (read in full...)
If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?
Q. If my girlfriend's grandmother and my grandmother are sisters what does that make us?...
A. 23 February 2009: ok so both ure grand mothers are sisters which would make your parents cousins so you are not really related 2 each other x... (read in full...)
What words can be used to describe a guy?
Q. I suppose this is a bit wierd, but you know how guys get so many words to describe a girl? such as beautiful, gorgeous, stunning, ect.. what words can be used to describe a guy? I mean, I think handsome is a little old fashioned, but do guys like ...
A. 23 February 2009: wow i have tons lol - cute , hot , stunning , well fit , hot rod , sexy , macho there are tons just use ure imagination lol... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and fancy the pants of this guy in our group. I'm so confused.
Q. Okay guys, please help. To understand this question, I feel you need to know the full story... well the significant bits anyway. 2005. I'm 14 and fancy the pants of this guy in our group. He's all I think about and we get along really well, my be...
A. 23 February 2009: im afraid that if you want your fairy tale ending ure going 2 have 2 tell your friend. if she knew how u felt about him then she shouldnt have sed yes 2 him and clearly they have a rocky relationship so i think u and ure friend need 2 hac a heart 2 ... (read in full...)
What do I do to get her to want me back?
Q. The only way she's going to want me back is if she feels like she's losing me. How do i do that? We've been apart for 4 months and she doesnt' want to date me, but wants to remain friends and talk/catch up etc. Up until a month ago she would say ...
A. 23 February 2009: go completely cold turkey no contact wotsoever and if you see her avoid her, also u should start mixing with other people. if she thinks ure moving on then she'll start 2 get jelous and not want any 1 else 2 have u. eventually after a while of no ... (read in full...)
Is this something she's going through or is it just me should I stay or should I go?
Q. With our first child she wanted sex all the time but with our second child which she had early b/c she had high blood pressure and had 2 have the C section, everything has changed she's always tired she says or the couple of times she did it's like ...
A. 23 February 2009: ok u have 2 kids 2gether and ure thinking of breaking up coz of sex? i say stay she's just had a baby her hormones are raging and u neva kno she could hav post*depression as birth didnt go 2 plan. it hapenz let me know if u have any Q's x... (read in full...)
Please help me with my relationship!
Q. I'm a teenage guy with a younger girlfriend (2 years) which can make a big difference at my age(16). She likes getting off( kissing) but I want to bring our relationship a little bit further, but she is kinda frigid and finds the idea of oral a bit ...
A. 23 February 2009: ok so im asuming she is under age. she still mite like you but she might be scared of what could happen. i wouldnt use the term frigid either she mite still be a virgin. wen i was a virgin i refused 2 do it as i was afraid of gettin preggers she ... (read in full...)
Do you think I have anything to worry about or if I should just be patient??
Q. Hi, My friends tried to set me up with a guy they knew the other day but before they has a chance too I met him out one night and we got on really well and danced together and kissed and he bought me a drink. He was so sweet and I really liked h...
A. 23 February 2009: hey im not sure wether ure looking for a relationship or just wanna have fun but if this guy doesnt text u back within 2 days then he's not worth it but if u just want fun then ask him wether he ever wants 2 c u agen or wether he's stringing u ... (read in full...)
Can a thirteen year age gap go the distance?
Q. Hi, can a thirteen year age gap go the distance? I'm 35, my partner is 22, we've been together nearly a year and are madly in love, currently we have spent last few months in different countries cos of her work but I am moving over abroad to set up ...
A. 23 February 2009: if u truly love her and she loves you then age shouldnt matter and if your friends think different then thats their problem if they were true friends they would want 2 c u happy no matter what the circumstances. good luck and all the best. x... (read in full...)
He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?
Q. Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get ...
A. 29 July 2008: hi its a bit harder to make a guy cum if he has sex often as he is used to it so it takes a while but if he gets "it" less it should be easier im afraid thats awl i can help u with as im not sure of any medical things that could be wrong, either ... (read in full...)
I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.
Q. I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our...
A. 29 July 2008: well she is probably reli in love with you and if so there is no way of breaking it to her gently but she will get over it, if you want 2 break up i suggest u talk 2 her and simply say u like her alot and still want to be friends but its not working ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to tell if boys and girls are flirting with you.
Q. I'm 15, quite camp to be honest. I'm bi-sexual, but only a few of my mates know that. Im having some trouble getting into relationships with people! i really would like to know whether its me, or am i just not finding the right people! people say ...
A. 15 March 2008: well it would be ideal if you knew theese people's sexuality and maybe start being honest about your sexuality then talk to the person alone and ask them if they'r serious or just mucking about as its never easy knowing wot goes through everyones ... (read in full...)
I'm in a secret relationship with an older man--should I be afraid of the law?
Q. Please help me--I am in a 1 year 7 month secret relationship with a 31 year old man. We love each other to bits. Can he get in trouble with the police if my parents go to the police? And we both want to try for a baby--can he get in trouble ...
A. 24 June 2007: hey in the uk its not illegal so long as your 16 and both party's consent to it instead you might want to think about why he wants 2 keep it a secret not to sound cruel or jujmental but you could be dating a pedofile for all you know or some perve ... (read in full...)
Period started-had sex-and then the period stopped! Now it has started again! Could I still be pregnant?
Q. hey .. im a female .. i know its a males account but its my boyfriends and i cba to make my own .. ok i got my period about a week ago and i had sex .. then it stopped .. and its just started again yesterday .. what does i mean and could i be ...
A. 21 May 2007: hey some people still get their period when their pregnant its not common but it can happen your best bet is taking a test or going 2 the clinic 4 a test if you have doubts about the way you have used contraceptives. common signs of pregnancy are ... (read in full...)
Why am I being so horrible to my ex ? He didnt hurt me, I dont understand ?
Q. Hi. I Broke up with my ex boyfriend around christmas time as i realsied it was just a rebound relationship and we were better of as friends. Now i cant help being horrible towards him saying nasty things and always casuing arguments. I fee...
A. 5 April 2007: i think maybe you like the bad side of him or perhaps you arent normally friends with ex's or maybe you just want him to be angry with you it rely hard to tell... (read in full...)
His mother is jealous of our relationship! How can we get round it ?
Q. Boyfriends over controled mother. me(20) and my boyfriend(22) are in a bad situation or may i say i am. my boyfriends mother doesnt like me at all and i dont no why she is like this to me. I was still a virgin when we met and she told him just th...
A. 3 April 2007: mothers can get jelous of their son's girlfriend relationship but you cannot break up because of her just tell your boyfriend that she's bothering you and you need to know that he doesn't believe her and if he doesn't then just ignore what she says ... (read in full...)
We had a row, I lashed out and slapped him! I'm truly sorry, but how can I get him to believe me!?
Q. we had a fight and i slapped my bf. i dont really mean it,it just happens bcoz i was in so much rage,i told him im sorry but he won't listen.what will i do to make him believe tat i'am really sorry for what i did? please help.i'm desperate.....
A. 3 April 2007: theres not much you can rely do but let him hav a bit of breathin space 4 a while then confront him and tell him that your really sorry and you wish it never happened and if he doesnt want to believe you then my guess is that he doesnt want a proper ... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?
Q. Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is ...
A. 3 April 2007: it is completely your choice wheather you want to open up to everyone about your sexuality and im all for it. if you know that you'r definatly bisexual then there's nothing stopping you. as for your friend im not rely sure but you could always talk ... (read in full...)
Orgasmed when he rubbed me. Was this a "real" orgasm because I've never had sex? Are they different?
Q. plse help, last night my bf woke me in middle of nite and started touching me, i let him as we hardly ever do anything like that normally due to me as im a virgin.(he was rubbing me) I wasnt wet so it felt quite sore but i did orgasm, but it felt ...
A. 21 March 2007: hi you can have an orgasm without having sex and you probably did orgasm the reason its irritable is because you probably havn't done it before or your not quite used to it yet but dont worry it'll get easier then u wont worry as much about certain ... (read in full...)
Id like to try oral sex with him, but its a surprise, any tips on making it a success ?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is the only guy I have fooled around and had sex with. I have never given him oral sex because I didnt really like the idea, yet lately I have been thinking about it and I've decided I would like to ...
A. 21 March 2007: well im not rely sure how to anser your question but all i can rely say is pretend your sucking on a lollypop but also massage with your free hand but try not to bite lol just go with the flow and i would like to suggest that you use a flavoured ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but seeing her so upset, makes me wonder if it is worth giving it another go !?
Q. I broke up with GF yesterday and don't know if it was the right choice. We had been together 18 mo and living together for 12 of that, things have been rocky off and on mostly about friends that she doesn't trust and doesn't want me to be friends ...
A. 21 March 2007: your ex-gf clearly has feelings for you and if you are determined to give it another go the u have my support as im all for it. you also said you need space with your friends without her being there. that is also not a problem if you just talk with ... (read in full...)
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