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I would like to initiate more from him, how should I do this?

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Question - (30 May 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i makeout A LOT! and we both def. enjoy it but i feel like we could be doing more (but NOT sex) if we both wanted to, i feel like we're both ready but how do i or does he go about initiating something more.....if possible i would appreciate some advice on how to go about this

thanks much

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006):

you should explain how special your kisses are but how much it would be great to do more see if he gets the hint lol :) if not take it slowly when you kiss slowly move your hand up his spine or squizy his butt tease him and you myt find he does the same it's more exciting for u's i hope i've helped

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (30 May 2006):

Yos agony auntThe simplest and best way is to talk openly with him about it. Tell him what you are looking for, and why.

Most importantly, talk about it in a positive, non-critical way. It's easy to start an argument when talking about these things. If you can do it in a way that keeps him feeling comfortable and appreciated then you might find that he wants to do more with you too.

Although ideally you want him to initiate things, a good way to start is for you to come with some ideas for things you can do.

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