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writes:Dear Cupid,Several times now, I've written to you asking for helpconcerning my crush, Ethan. Well, I've found myselfneeding advice about him yet again, and I thought thatmaybe someone here could help me out, as they have donebrilliantly in the past.On New Year's Eve, my cousin, two of my friends, and Iare going to see Ethan's band play. I've been thinkingabout pulling him off to the side and seeing if I canfigure out where I stand with him (you know, like whathis feelings are concerning me), but...I just don'tknow how to go about doing that. Should I even do it?I know it might seem pushy and all, but I just reallyfeel like it's something I need to know. I can't moveon without knowing what I'm walking away from. I mean,I don't want to let go if there's the possibility thatthere's even just a tiny little sliver of hope for arelationship between us. But I don't want to make himmad or intimidate him or anything by asking him this. Ido feel like I have a right to know, though. I mean,this concerns my happiness. Do you think I should askhim? And if so, what should I say? Any help would beGREATLY appreciated.Thank you, and God bless,~Sarah~
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (28 December 2007):
im kind of agreeing with ellie at this pint in not telling him..usually im all up for it but i duno..womens intuition il call it.
mayb pulling him aside after hes played and telling him what a great job hes done is a good idea..why not ask him to hang out with you.
you can be as casual or as straight forward as you like from a "we should totally hang out sometime" to a "mayb you could teach me how to play guitar sumtime(considering he plays guitar) to a straigh up "do u wana ..(catch a movie??)
just go with your gut instinct darl.
good luck
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (27 December 2007):
hi hun!
first of all from what ive heard guys get scared when you straight out say do u like me i like you kind of thing. i would gently ask him how he is and act differently around him that with anyoneelse. so he can see that you like him. have a relaxed chat and then say so you seeing anyone. if his answers yes then leave it, if its no then be like do you have a crush on anyone? if he says yes and gets all embarased then its porbably you. tell him you have a crush on someone whose really sweet and plays in a band. its a silly way of telling him and he can guess its him.
hope this helps
feel free to mail me if you want to talk about anything else.
lol
ellie
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