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writes: I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend who is married and is trying for a baby with his new wife. I was the one who ended our relationship 5 years ago How can I stop thinking about him and regretting what I've done?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (7 June 2005):
 You need to get out and focus on life without him. He has made his choice by marrying someone else and is obvioulsy now happy. You need to stop dwelling in the past and wondering about the what ifs and move on. Be true to yourself, find ways in which you can get out and found a new life without him. Make new friends, take up a new hobby. The key is to stop thinking about what you have lost and get out there and find something new. Be positive, its hard yes, but you have to move on, he has, and regret is a hard thing, but the longer you do to this to yourself then without realising it, life will slowly pass you by and maybe too will some other opportunities. Get yourself back out there and allow someoneelse to love you. Be happy positive and stay focused on your life and make it happier for you, stop sitting feeling sorry for yourself take life and grab it with both hands and found out what else is out there!Take carex x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2005): Dont worry, plenty of people have this problem and at first it's very hard to overcome but eventually you will move on just like he has. Just think to yourself 'Why can't I do what he's done and move on?' There are plenty more boys out there, so don't worry you'll find someone new!!!!
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reader, psychic1 +, writes (7 June 2005):
We humans are funny creatures. We think we are controlled by our feelings but WE control our feelings with our thoughts. You say he is trying to have a baby with his new wife & that you broke up 5 years ago. Well my love, you have had a very long time to sort your feelings out & try to get him back. Something inside of you knew he wasn't right that's why you let him go. Your pride may be hurt because he has finally moved on & loves another. We often want what we can't have. Feel good that you had made a decision years ago & stick with it. Procrastination only leads to apathy & a heavy heart. If you still care for him, be happy for him & know it's your turn soon.
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reader, Crazy_About_B +, writes (7 June 2005):
All I have to say is, he got over you; why can't you get over him? Like I always say "There are plenty of fish in the sea." and "There is a man for every woman and a woman for every man; all you have to do is look."
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Ah yes! You, my dear, are one of many women who have realized what they have lost after breaking a man's heart. I'm sorry, sweetie. He's not coming back no matter what you think. He's found what seems to be his perfect love because he married the woman. Leave him alone. You only end up being the fool.
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