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writes:Hey everyone...I am abit confused at the moment :\ i need some advice please. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over seven months and i feel that we are growning apart :( i have ask him how he feels and he said that we are fine as close as ever but i dont feel like that...i have told him how i feel and i was just wondering once we grow apart can we get close again or will it be to late, i cant stop thinking about it bcoz i love his guy with all my heart.Is it too late to get close again with my boyfriend ?? And if so how ??Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 all long term couples have periods of waxing and waning of affection and emotions... it's part of life.
if he's one of those guys that does not share his emotions easily he's just holding it all in as is his way.
just continue to be available for him if he needs you and let him know you are there if he needs you and stop bugging him about growing apart as that just adds to his stress.
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reader, sweetcheeks95 +, writes (30 November 2011):
sweetcheeks95 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i already know the reason why we are growning apart...my boyfriend is having family problems at at moment and i am trying to stay strong for him but i just feel sooooooo empty inside, its just not having him there :\
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (30 November 2011):
It's possible. If you both feel the same about each other. If he is pulling away and your trying to get closer..it probably won't work out too well.
But if you do love each other, then first find out what's getting in the way? Time? Friends? Exes? School? Then try and see how you can spend time / talk to each other around whatever is making you guys grow apart.
Well I'm noe expert, but I hope I helped at least a little :) Tell us how it goes later?
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