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writes: It seems I was a "rebound victim" awhile back. The ex returned and I was dumped, but he never lost contact with me. Maybe he wasn't confident in the decision he made? Anyway, now the ex is gone for good and I have a feeling he will return to me. Should I look at the situation like "I'm 2nd choice"? Or should I look at it as "he needed the closure with her before he could move on"? Should I blow the guy off or should I give him a break?
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (17 April 2006):
Once is an accident, twice is stupid. Patterns repeat - he'll leave you again. You want more pain?
Under no circumstances should you take him back. Move on
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