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Took my girl for granted, said some things I shouldn't have... Now she's left and I can't imagine my life without her!

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Question - (16 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2006)
A male , *hris23 writes:

My gf just broke up with me last Sunday, after 3 years. She just told me she wanted a break to see what else was out there and see if I was the one. But I don't know what to do.

I haven't heard from her since Monday. I don't know what to do. I love her with all my heart and soul. The last few weeks I really wasnt acting like a true bf. I was saying stuff to her I shouldnt have and wrestling with her a little too rough and she thought I was doing it out of anger.

I wouldn't do anything to hurt that girl. I love her with all my heart. I can't make it without her. I know she loves me or she wouldn't have stayed with me this long. I tried last year to get her to go out and see other ppl so she would know if I was the one.. she said she didn't have to go out with other ppl and she knew I was the one...So what do I do?

This girl means everything to me.....everything... I can't see my life without her in it.. what can I do to show her how much I love her and everything...? I just sent her 3 dozen of roses the other day and I didn't get no response..so please tell me, what I can do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2006):

Think long and hard about the reasons she gave you for leaving. Did you treat her well? Did you make her feel special? Did you appreciate and respect her?

Most women desire intimacy, respect, and romance in their relationships. Even after 3 years. If you want her, REALLY want HER, and aren't just scared of being alone, then figure out a way to show and to tell her that. But don't go to her if you aren't sure. If you love her, then what should be most important to you is that she is happy. If you think she is, leave her alone. If not, go make her happy.

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A male reader, chris23 +, writes (17 April 2006):

chris23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

what is my answer?....what do i do?...this is about to kill me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006):

Life is hard isn't It. When she was in your life did you not give it your all to make sure she felt loved by you or did you just take things for granted? . Well there is your answer.

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