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writes: my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. he says we will move in together sometime this year. i am ready to move in now. how do I get him and i on the same page in this situation ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunt Agony +, writes (10 January 2007):
You dont say whether either of you has your own place or whether you would be buying or renting somewhere that you have both chosen. Maybe if you need to find somewhere you could casually hand him some property information and suggest you start looking as it can take a long time to find the right place.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 Well you can't force him to get on the same page as you. The only thing you can do is express your feelings on the issue and wait. It seems that he has already given you his answer... "Sometime this year." Perhaps you can get him to compromise and the two of you move in togther a little sooner than he anticipated. It's called a compromise, "You wait, he accelerates, you both get part of what you want." You don't say why the hurry to move in is, so I'll just assume it is simply a desire to be with him and not job, money, or any other issue that might alter my advice.
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