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writes:Hey, I'm 17 and I've been exploring myself for a year or so now. I really like masturbating, but I can only fit 1 finger in, and I want more. When I try 2 fingers, I am actually able to get them both in, but it's really tight and kind of hurts when the skin on the left side stretches (as I go further in) so I stop. I have a dildo that's almost 2" thick, and I really wanna use it, but I just can't get it in. Any tips? Thanks :)By the way, I'm a virgin if you couldn't tell. :P
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Actually, losing your virginity won't stretch you out or anything of the sort. Though you may break your hymen, if it hasn't broken already, but tightness has nothing to do with being a virgin. The reason it feels like that is that you aren't turned on enough. Your vagina can expand a LOT, but only when it's turned on. You can't just jam in a huge dildo or multiple fingers right off the bat and expect it to feel good. Most women find that it feels best to rub their clitoris and penetration is just sort of an added sensation. You shouldn't try putting anything in your vagina until you've gotten aroused enough (through rubbing your clitoris or touching yourself anywhere else that feels good), and then go slowly. One finger, until it's expanded a bit and then two. Also get yourself some good lube to use, as that will help.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 You are so tight because you are a virgin. Therefore it is going to hurt a little bit the first time you use your dildo. You really need to make sure that you are totally turned on and relaxed and also buy yourself some lubrication as it makes things so much easier, so once you are really turned on and wet use the lubrication on the dildo and just enter it in really slowely. Goodluck.
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