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I want to tell my mom I'm pregnant but I'm not sure how

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Question - (5 February 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ngie12x writes:

Ok im. 15 and my bf is 18.....and I'm pregant...I'm really cloe to my mom but idk how tell her I'm pregant and I know she will b disappointed and it will hurt to hear her say tht..so how do I tell her? And I'm not close to my step dad bc he left how do I say tht knowing he is strict and my real dad woodnt care... but I know imma get judged in school....:/ and I no I sound kiddish but I'm worried..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011):

I think it will be better to tell her in person coz it will show her that your more mature then if you do it bye text RED LIPZ XX

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A female reader, angie12x United States +, writes (7 February 2011):

angie12x is verified as being by the original poster of the question

What if I text it to her ? Bc I'm going to my dads this Friday and I dnt wanna tell her in person@

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011):

omg well 1st of all you need to just come out straight to her youll feel better then .your so young and i feel so bad for you , my mum was 15 when she had me and when she went to school she sed she used to get a bit of hassle but she sed at the end of it , it was all worth it having me :D lol so when you have your baby youll just be so happy and im sure youll get through it , also dont be scared im sure everything will be fine .Hope ive helped and hope you have a beautiful baby so i know your young but when peeps are pregnant you say congrats so congratulations! RED LIPZ aged 13 : XXX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011):

I agree with the other answerers, Just tell her. Any emotions she has at first will soon go as she looks forward to the arrival of your little one, If you tell her without your partner being there that keeps him out of the cross fire and it gives you a chance to break it to her gently. I'm sure she'll be pissed at first because you are still young but if you are brave enough to tell her face to face then you'll be fine. Good luck hun.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011):

if you can get in bed have un protective sex with a 18yld the you def grown enough to tell your mom. im not judging you we all make mistakes but be a grown up about this and tell your mom. im also Waring you that she may be very angry at the boy..not sure where you live but him bring 18 you 15 in some sates thats rape :/.. goof luck to you...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011):

I'm really sorry but you are just going to have to straight out tell your mom! You need all the support you can get at this point and even though, yes, she will probably be dissapointed or upset, she loves you, and will want to help you as much as she can! Just get her alone, calm, not rushing off to work or whatever, and say, 'mom, I have to tell you..' etc. have you told any of your friends yet? you could possibly have someone who already knows there at the time to be your support person. good luck!

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