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*oondancer92
writes:So I have this fantastic friend, we have been best friends for nearly 8 years and we're pretty close. We dont see each other alot but when we do its like we can just pick up from where we left off and we talk every night over the computer (we go to different schools). She has identified herself as bi but has never had any girlfriends and I personally don't know my sexuality..it hasnt been that big of a deal for me. But now I have a problem...I think I'm in love with my best friend, last time we saw each other I would be looking at her while we talk and would suddenly get hit with the urge to kiss her, and since then its been on my mind alot, shes even been in a few dreams that I'm not going to talk about here....So my question is this; what do i do? I want to tell her but I'm scared that she will not like me in that way and it may end our friendship. How could i tell if she likes me in that way?
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reader, babbi x  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 hey x
weell ...
i thought that i was in love with one of my brest friends asweell !! i told him .. and we got 2gether !
seriously if you reallii like her just tell her ! also say that you dont want the relation ship to effect your friendship
hope everything works out well for you
( just for the record .. i broke up with my best friend and we are still reallii close !! )
love babbii
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reader, Shanny96 +, writes (29 March 2009):
 I agree that this is a very difficult position to be in. If she has admitted she is bi to you, then she trusts you. If you are best friends, then a thing like this could not ruin it. You need to let her know because you cannot let this eat away at you. Take her somewhere, you can be alone and make sure that she knows you will always be best friends no matter what feelings you have towards her. Tell her that you have been thinking about it for a while and you cannot keep it from her anymore. You never know, maybe telling you that she was bi was hinting something. If it doesn't go so well, make her know that you will always be her friend. i wish you well.
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