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I want to talk to her before I lose the chance

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Question - (8 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2011)
A male age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have recently come to terms with some life changing emotions. I have realized that the girl I have had a crush on for the last 2 years could be the girl I want to be with forever. I've also realized that I might not have forever to talk to her about my feelings and want to say something in case I lose her before the truth comes out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011):

I think you mean that you will lose her before you can tell her that you like her, yes?

First off, if you already talk to this girl then the only thing you can do is to say you like her. Find a moment to be alone, and sometimes you have to make a moment. Say something like, "I'd like to talk to you for a minute, please." Then just tell her how you feel.

Be prepaired before hand for both outcomes, both positive and negative. I know from experience that not saying anything will cause you to live with regret for a long time. It may even have negative effects on your future relationships. Even if she says no to you, at least you will have an answer and not wonder what might have been.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 September 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntBefore WHAT truth comes out???

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