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writes:Hello. Me and my boyfriend had sex last night for the first time. Tomorrow morning I'm going to his house we are going to spend the day together. I want to show up in something sexy to seduce him. Is it too soon or should i do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Becker0109  +, writes (9 August 2012):
Abella, excellent advise.
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reader, Abella +, writes (6 August 2012):
 it is way too soon.
If he is genuine he will want to get to know you as a person.
A man can get sex from any willing female anytime he comes across a girl willing enough.
A genuine guy wants to know the real you as a person.
Turning up to seduce him is way over the top, too pushy, too demanding.
He may start to think you are way tooooo easy and you also remove his chance to treat you to some delightful wooing.
Don't serve it up on a plate.
It cheapens you and how you will appear in the long run to him.
Genuine Good Guys want good communication, companionship, someone honorable who he can trust.
Someone who respects him. Listens to him.
And is nice to be around.
Genuine Good Respectful Guys don't like
To feel that all they are is a Penis to a girl.
Men love pursuing girls. They don't really appreciate being denied the pursuit part of the game.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 Too soon, unless like blonde30s says, you have been with him for a while. Do you know what he finds sexy? Not all men like lingerie...my boyfriend thinks i'm very sexy in one of his shirts or my pjs and a hoodie! He dislikes lingerie/make up intensely!
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