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writes:My ex-girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago saying I was the perfect boyfriend, but doesn't love me the same way anymore.She tells me to move on and that she has already moved on and that she doesn't think, love, or miss me anymore.I'm confused because we have been together for such a long time, but she's able to NOT love, miss, or think about me after 2 weeks!As a side note, she's not interested in anyone, but she does encourage me to date or do whatever it takes to get over her.I've broken the NC rule, but starting now I'm planning to follow through indefinitely. Basically, I won't contact her until she contacts me. Hearing her say she has moved on is heartbreaking, but seriously... 2 weeks?Personally, I think I'm more distraught that she has moved on in 2 weeks more so than the break up itself-- I'm envious. I wish I could get over her that easily, but then again, maybe she may not be saying what she truly feels. ...Apparently she has been thinking about breaking up for a while, but 2 weeks after a breakup could she truly be over me or is this a facade to cope? I do want to re-ignite that spark and try again, but what do you think is going through her head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo you think if i start NC that there might be that possibility?
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reader, tby1  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 hey my 2 son's mum of 7 years has done something similar to me. but because she thinks i cheated on her, which is untrue, just some texts and picture messages,she doesnt believe a word i say about how ive learnt and wont ever make the same mistakes again, she has told me she to move on as she will never get back with me but everytime i try to move on she calls me back somehow, i havent ever wanted to move on but ive tried as she insisted that was it and started seeing somebody else who actually ended up being her half sister which i didnt know.i havent a clue what to think, she calls me round for the most passionate sex but only when she wants it and so on
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reader, garcypher +, writes (21 March 2011):
The exact same same thing has recently happened to me, only it's my wife of five years. I was told all the same things: find someone else and move on etc... because she doesn't love me any more. When a partners feelings change toward you for whatever reason there is very little you can do but move on as they ask you to. I tried everything to woo her back for over a year. It came to nothing in the end. Quote: "Ilove you but am not in love with you anymore" The old cliche used every time someone wants to move on from you. Move on as she asks you to. That's my oppinion through my experiences.
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