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writes: So I have a huge problem. I found this really really good college in Colorado that has EXACTLY what I want but I live in Massachusetts. I know my parents want me to go somewhere in new england, and I'm also looking at schools there but I also want to experience the world for myself and be independent. My mom says the problem is money which I understand (air-fare) back and forth when I want to come home. Also going to visit it before I make my decision..and I'll hopefully be getting a job soon to pay for some of it, which might make the situation better.. I haven't told my dad yet, but he's going to be even worse with it. I wish I could just tell them it's my life, why can't I go where I want (besides the money issue) if it makes me happy. My mom just said "you have to find the right school and the right program that's worth the money" Well I know I found it.. so someone help me convince them to let me go out there?? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): I just went through this process a year ago, and I can tell you it's difficult no matter what you choose. Money is a big issue, especially in this economy and out of state tuition is quite expensive. I'm not telling you to not go, just to look at the price vs. the outcome. What kind of field do you want to work in? It may be a better financial decision to stay close to home and study abroad or take a job in a different state after graduation. While visiting the campus remember to ask plenty of questions so you can make a well-informed decision. Good luck.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 I think it's great that you want to be independent and further your education. What are you planning to major in, and what is it about this school in Colorado that you like so much? Does this school have something that the others schools lack?
Unless you are able to get a scholarship, it may be best to go to a school nearby. Many schools have partnerships with other schools across the U.S., so you can study at another school for a year. Another option would be to go to a local school for the first two years of college, and then transfer to the school in Colorado for your junior and senior years.
I'm interested in hearing your responses to my questions. Good luck!
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