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30-35,
*acey101
writes:hi i just wanted to get on here and see what this was all about. i love my exboyfriend, but im dating somebody else. just to make him jealous cause its his cuzin and all. what do i do? is that mean?
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 October 2007):
 It's vindictive and malicious. You're not just trying to make your ex jealous, but you're using someone who's an innocent party as the means to do it. What if the cousin develops feelings for you, and your intention is still only jealousy, are you going to be honest and say, "I know you really like me, but I was just using you."
If you're trying to get another chance with him at anytime, you're going about it the wrong way.
You are being mean to both guys.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 My advice? Grow up!!
Don't use jealousy as an emotional weapon. Consider the new guy you're dating? What of his feelings? Do they not matter a damn because you're trying to hurt the feelings of an ex? And furthermore! It's his cousin! That has the potential to cause issues in his family life, and that is something that you should absolutely not be getting involved with, no less; try to cause problems in.
I know the reasons why you want to make him jealous, but what you're doing isn't a good enough reason to play with other people's emotions, and correct me if I'm wrong but; When is it ever ok to do that?
Sort yourself out, girl. Unless you ACTUALLY have feelings for the guy your with now, don't be with him. And for the love of god, show some maturity and stay the hell out of your ex's business. If you want to be with him, find a sensible way of doing so, not by using jealousy as a weapon.
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