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writes:Hi, I really need some help. There's this guy from my church who i really like. He's about 8months younger than me and in the year below at school (different school to me). I have liked him for over a year now and have allready asked him out once before (about 5-6 months ago). I don't know what to do now. I think that I have grown over imperfections and just fancing him to loving him . I know it must be a bit intimidating being asked out by an older girl who us taller than him. Our two families are really good friends and spend quite a lot of time together (ice skating,bowling...). Please help me make my next move. Secret Dreamer x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 May 2010):
I don't think the problem is that you're older or taller. I think the problem is maybe he's just doesn't feel the same way if he didn't say yes a while back. However, if you don't you'll never know the truth and you'll always be kicking yourself. I think you should just ask to talk to him, take him aside and tell him how you feel. The ask him how he feels and see what he says. It's worth a try, so good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): The best thing you can do is try and get to know him abit more. Don't be all agreeing with him you need to who you normally are let him get close tell him things and let him know you trust him and eventually the friendship will hopefully turn into something better but don't keep asking him out and guys like abit of a challenege so play hard to get for a while but text him every so often call him randomly but not everyday or every other day just the very odd occasion. Trust me you don't want to come across like a stalker or a weirdo. Just be nice. And if he doesn't like you then move on it will be hard i know from my own exprience but you know what its worth it in the end. Hope i helped S'f :)
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