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writes: Hi my name is steph, please please3 help me!! ive been with my boyfriend for bout nearly two years. im only 17 and iv just moved fom hull to lincoln with him, i havent got no family or friends here. I feel like i want to leave him! well i have done for ages, but i just cant!!!!! girls have told me he has cheated on me, iv found numbers that hes been ringing ive rang bak n they have all been girls saying the same thing. He has hit me after a night out together because we had an argument. why cant i leave him? its worse now because we live together and im far away from home, and i feel horrible if i leave him here by hiself. what can i do???????help!!!!
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reader, CONFUSED N STUPID! +, writes (15 October 2006):
CONFUSED N STUPID! is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi i wrote a question yesterday, thank you to the people that answered my Q, it has really helped me. Heres an update on things, i rang my mam today and told her i was coming home (she doesnt know anything about him hitting me) but no-one can come and pick me up tonight! my sister said that she can tomorrow, but ive set my mind on leaving now and the longer i leave it the more i feel like i want to stay. i would go tonight but i dont have any money, so im pretty stuck until tomorrow. If any-onelse has any answers please please write to mexxxx
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reader, pica +, writes (15 October 2006):
I'd guess you feel bad about admitting that you've made this big change and it's gone wrong. There is nothing to be ashamed of in that - we've all learned from your mistakes. Put your worries about him aside - if he's hit you he's not worth it. The other aunts have given good advice about how to go about this split. Get it over with and get on with your life and don't, uder any circumstances, get back with him. Good luck.
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reader, andrea23 +, writes (15 October 2006):
 you should'nt worry about leaving him on his own because he wasn't worried about you being on your own when he was out with other girls behind your back plus you say he hit you. your happiness comes 1st & at the minute all your doing is prolonging the agony by staying with him. you should phone your parents or a friend & get them to drive down to where you are & once they arrive get them to help you with packing your stuff (DON'T PACK YOUR STUFF UNTIL THEY ARRIVE) because if he knows your leaving he might hit you. you really need to get rid of this guy you deserve much better
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