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writes:I used to love giving my partner oral but recently even the thought of it makes me feel sick, but, I am fine when I think of doing it to a guy I was seeing on and off not that long ago (I was still with my partner at that time) what can I do because he loves it. The guy was really into it moaning etc telling me how good it felt and afterwards in texts telling me it was yummy etc. Whereas my partner dosent make any noise and when I actually ask him how it was he says "fine".
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo theres not another issue, its over and done with, we are fine and back on track
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 I guess you're looking for validation or recognition for your efforts. I can understand that. I wonder though why you're not more concerned about the fact you were giving oral sex to another man while still with your partner. Is there a bigger issue?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Hay - my fella never makes a sound when im giving him oral and it really puts me off cause im constantly thinking - is he asleep rather than actually enjoying it. I simply said 'hay babe you know when im giving you oral is there any chance you could be abit more vocal cause that would really turn me on!'
All im trying to say is talk to him - he might just be shy or embarressed incase he becomes to vocal - just talk to him im sure he'll understand and try and improve. alternatively when hes giving you oral make sure your saying things that you think he could say back to you when the roles are reversed that way hes simply following your lead so that hopefully won't make him as self conscience.
take care
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 October 2007):
Not all guy act the same. But I'll he's moaning in his head.
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