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writes: i want to know if this guy likes me he looks at me for long perods and is always touching me wanting to know were i am slaps me and jockes with me he even got in to bed with me hugs me and is always rubs his body when ever he is nere me he is always wants to know were i am and asks did i miss him when he gose to his familys he comes up behind me and puts his arms a round me and pulls me towards him help me i want to respond to him but want to be sure the signals he is given out are true and what do they mean.thanks elaine Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 From what you have described, it does appear that he has some sort of attraction to you, but as Bev Conolly rightly says be careful how you respond to this. He does seem a bit overly tactile and I agree with Bev, this could be a bit sinister, but not necessarily. Why dont you try dropping some hints, I have done it and it works, why not say "You just cant keep your hands off me, anyone would think you had the hots for me!"
It works, I am telling you, if you kind of let him know that you maybe know how he is feeling, he will respond, but dont repsond to his advances until you are entirely comfortable with him, ok my dear? xXx
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Hi Elaine,
I'd say this guy is touching you a bit too much. These are touches that say "I want sex with you", not ones that suggest a healthy interest in your personality. In fact, if there's an age gap between the two of you (and I suspect there is) I'd even go so far as to suggest that this person is 'grooming' you for sex.
Be very careful about "responding" to this, because it might be that he's ready for more than you are at this time. The signals he's giving out are of a guy who's much more confident and sexual than you seem to be, and therefore you will have to be sure that you're strong enough to speak your mind, stand up for yourself and not be hurried into intimate activites.
If, as I suspect, this person is a few years older than you, I'd resist the impulse to respond, because it's likely you'll get steamrollered by his overly-affectionate ways, and end up having sex before you're ready.
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