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writes:Ok I have been seeing a girl for about four months. Everytime we look at each other I can feel the love between us. When I look at her I feel like I should kiss her. I would like advice on how to know if she wants me to kiss her and the best way to kiss her. I hate to admit it but I have never kissed a girl in a romantic way. I look forward to any help you can offer. Reply to this Question
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reader, natasia  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Great news! So glad I helped. Thanks for saying so. And good luck for the rest of it ...
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reader, nicklegames +, writes (22 March 2008):
nicklegames is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I just wanted to give an update to you all and say that you were right natasia. I finally kissed my girlfriend tonight after work. I followed your advice and it helped out a lot so thank you all for the tips. And you were right she has been wanting to kiss me for a long time to. She just wanted to make sure we were both comfortable with the situation. Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): According to Hitch.The key is to move in 90% of the way. So you are almost touching lips and hold there. Let HER go the last ten.fLYNN 24
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reader, natasia +, writes (21 March 2008):
Glad to be of help - hope it works (it will do - can't fail). Other advice? Give her a glass of wine first. : )
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reader, nicklegames +, writes (21 March 2008):
nicklegames is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice Natasia. I really appreciate it. I might go for it tonight after work. Any other advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, Lo lo +, writes (21 March 2008):
when you go to kiss her dont think about it let nature take its course dont panice just go for it no matter what happens she mit just be as scaerd as you are
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reader, natasia +, writes (21 March 2008):
She's waiting for you to kiss her, and yes, you damn well need to get on with it. You're a grown man! Come on!
Right. What you do is - when one of those moments comes up, when you're looking into each others' eyes and your faces are close, you just move very very gently closer to her - take it all very slowly and your instincts will take over. It is not rocket science. You just move almost imperceptibly closer, until your lips are almost touching. Then, finally, let them touch. At first just that contact, after the slow approach, will feel electric (well, it should do!). And then just kiss her on the lips in a normal way, but I can pretty much guarantee that after some kissing like that - even if you do that for several minutes, or on several different occasions, eventually your passions will take over and you'll get to opening your mouths and writhing around like the best of us : )
What you MUSTN'T DO is to launch yourself at her and immediately attempt to plunge your tongue in her mouth - NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take it very slowly. And remember even the tiniest bit of lip to lip contact will be wonderful if you love each other. What's the rush?
Oh, and another tip: stroke her hair, cup her face in your hands, even gently trace her facial features, maybe as a run-up to the kissing - always feels lovely. Treasure her. That's much more important than any technique. Good luck!
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