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writes:Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 weeks and it feels like its been years cuz i know him so well. I'm 14 and I really want to have my first kiss with my boyfriend, but I don't know where to do it! And some tips on kissing please ..also where do u put the tongue? So now i really want to kiss him! Help me: when and where? I was thinking the movies but when? and still where?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 October 2016):
 I guess at your age almost two weeks is quite a long relationship. Remember though you are still very young. Make sure that you are ready to start kissing your boyfriend and know when to stop. I would recommend doing it somewhere public, also start slowly, so no tongues just yet. Do whatever comes natural, start with just pecks until you are both comfortable and wanting to advance it. Tongues should wait until you are both ready and comfortable around each other, if you go straight in with tongues it can get awkward and messy when you are both young and not sure what you are doing. Movies is a good start. Hold hands, kiss either on the cheek or on the lips. Enjoy it.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (5 October 2016):
 You don't put the tongue anywhere yet; it should just be a little peck and lips pressed against each other - not like the movies where it's all making out.
You need to relax about it because forcing it to happen will likely make it awkward. Mine and my boyfriend were 19 and 20, in my lounge, and it just happened. We didn't make out until a week later; we wanted to enjoy the slow progression of small kisses first. You're still young, so I wouldn't recommend making out with tongues yet, anyway.
Take it slow, in public means it can't go further, which is good, and let it happen in its own time. It may feel like you've been together for years, but 2 weeks is such a short time that rushing it could end up leaving you disappointed and maybe even breaking up.
Just go with the flow and lean in when it feels right - don't push it :)
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