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*iff01011991
writes:I am a 21 single lesbian that moved to this area in July and from long as I can remember I have felt more attracted around mature lesbians. I have only dated women since I was 18.My questions. I found a lesbian bar that I have only seen mature lesbians enter and have even sat across the street from it wanting to go in but when I do go in I will be alone and most women I have seen enter have been in their 40's. Question 1. Should I just go in one night after the band starts and that would be on the weekends? 2. Should I go dressed in a skirt and blouse with maybe 7" heels or go casual? I see a lot of women going in dressed up sometimes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): I would simply suggest anything that's as feminine as you dare possible to attract attention. You may think dressing down or "un ladylike" will be the best thing, but at the same time you don't want to just fit into the background, you wanna stand out.
Remember, these are gay females you're aiming to attract, not do business with. The more feminine you are, I'd say the better! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): Of course you feel more attractive with people older than u by much, because you are the pretiest one being the youngest.
I still couldn't understand : do u want to be around 40 something women or not? Because I think the later night gets the younger crowd becomes, it's everywhere.
As far as dressing up, Based on what you described it's a mixed crowd, if I didn't want to stand out, I would dress somewhere in between, not super dressy, no super high hills, or shiny clothes, but something sexy and at the same time more casual.
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